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Working with people basically
is the big skill that I've learned. Once you
learn how to work on the gears, you know, they
teach you how to do that, but everyone learns
it a different way. So if I try to get my hands
into that piece of equipment and this guy or
this girl over here is trying to get their hands
into it, you have to be
able to work together, you know, and that's
something that I had never really experienced
before because I was always used to doing things
my own way and my way only. So getting other
people in there to work with me is - is - was
the hardest thing for me to do, but now I've
adjusted to that and it works fairly well.
You have to be able to get
to know people and I believe that I could change
somebody, you know, just talking to them, sit
down and have a nice conversation with them,
you have to be able to talk. You
have to be able to - if you can't communicate,
you can't get anyone else to communicate back
to you. So the main thing is you yourself knowing
how to communicate with other people.
The Navy's taught me a lot
of different protocols. I had the Texas slang
- I kind of still have
my Texas slang, but I've learned to diversify
what I - how I express myself. You know, when
I'm in a professional situation, I know how
to be professional. When I'm, you know, hanging
with the fellows or doing whatever, I know how
to hang with the fellows as well. So it's taught
me how to control how I express myself,
which is very important. I don't want to go
to the bank and get a loan and act like I'm
with the fellows, you know. So it's taught me
how to control how I express myself.
The writing that I do, evaluations,
you have to do lessons learned. Okay. We were
over here, if we ever have to go back, what
did he learn from the last time we did it? And
you have to be able to write clearly and precisely.
You have to get your point across and if you
don't have very good writing skills, you're
not going to be able to do that.
Communication is more important
than technical. If I go into to speak to the
Admiral or to speak to my Captain, I can't talk
to him the way that I speak with, you know,
the guy that's in there with the gear with me.
I can't say, hey, give me that wrench or you
need to do this. I can't do that. So learning
to communicate with certain people, for example
- you don't say to your grandmother," yeah,
I'll do it in a minute." It's "Yes, ma'am, here
I come". That's pretty much how communication
falls into place. You have to be able to know
how to speak to each person.
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